Friday, March 13, 2009

Relationship

In a relationship, it s easy to assume you know all there is to know about your partner. But people change. You should try to be aware of what is happening in your relationship and understand who your partner is and where they are at. Relationship development happens when you pay close attention and stay curious about (but respectful of) each other. Getting to know one another strengthens the bonds and makes life a more wonderful place to live in.
Relationship maintenance comes into play when we find someone we feel we can connect to in some ways, we are filled with indefinable, rather vague expectations regarding that person. Making a relationship last depends on how the couples involved relate with each other. Life doesn t give you the people you want; instead it gives you the ones you need: to teach you, to hurt you, to love you - to make you exactly the way you should be . These expectations remain deep inside our sub consciousness, despite our apparent denial.
Relationship Deterioration mostly occur when couples or friends begin to not understand each other and that's when the love/friendship starts to fall apart. Among the causes of relationship deteriorationare unrealistic beliefs about relationship, excessive intimacy claims, third-party relationships, relationship charges, undefined expectations, sex-related problems, work- related problems, and financial difficulties.
Most people who care about the relationship would want to mend it at once. Relationship Repairing is essential to every love life or friendship. General repair strategies include recognizing the problem, engaging in productive communication and conflict resolution, posing possible solutions, affirming each other, integrating solutions into normal behavior, and risking. Repair isn't necessarily a two-person process; one person can break unproductive and destructive cycles.
But when the feelings is right and you know that it's over thats when relationship dissolution come about. Among the strategies are positive tone, negative identity management, justification, behavioral de- escalation, and deescalation of exclusivity. It's up to the individual to either end it by being friends or it could get ugly. I strongly suggest that when couple or friends reach this stage, it's best to let the dust settle before talking to each other because it might spark an argument.

1 comment:

  1. i like the layout of this page.. very neat and clean..:) to me i suppose relationship rapairing is the most essential one as with this relationship would not just end abruptly that will cause regrets..

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